My thoughts on how to deal with the strongest and most complicated feeling.
At this point, it is now time to centre yourself, and make sure that you are not overselling or adapting yourself to fit in with the needs of the other person. It is very easy to fall into this trap, and apart from being stressful to keep up appearances, the longer this goes on, the more difficult it is to pull out of it, until you end up losing yourself, and eventually also your partner.
Real Love is effortless, once both of you understand what you deserve, and are able to see the beauty in difference, it comes all natural. No language is needed, and a simple eye contact will transmit enough information directly to the heart.
The thing is here, some of us simply settle for the first chance, just for the sake of filling in some void and not feeling lonely, but most of the time the void is simply some shortcoming, carried forward from our upbringing. Therefore, my suggestion to you would be to be alone, and understand what is creating the feeling of “loneliness“. By working on that, you will start to fall in love with yourself, and you will start setting some clear boundaries out of respect for your own self.
Once you are at that stage your Soul Mate, or even better your Twin Flame will come into your life unexpectedly… but this time you will be able to present yourself in the best genuine way possible.
Sharing Love,
CB
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